I hate arguing. I mean I don't know about you, but shouting and all that has always made me feel very uncomfortable. And some people actually enjoy it... I don't get that.
I understand that everyone can be annoying sometimes and we all have bad days, I also know some arguments are inevitable. E.g. with your friends, if you've known them for years it's rather strange if you've never had a single argument.
And I think you're supposed to fight with your siblings and parents, my sister and I used to yell at each other all the time when we were younger. These days we rarely argue but when we do, we say things that would make anyone else cry and truly hate us. But we're sisters and know that the other barely knows what she's saying and definitely doesn't mean any of it.
For me it's different with friends though, I know arguing is a part of every friendship but I still hate it. Granted, I can be mean if I'm in the mood and if you manage to piss me off then I will be pissed off. But I envy those who can argue and not cry at the same time because I'm usually the first one sobbing.
Especially if it's my dad I'm fighting with (just a random note lol). All he needs to do is raise his voice a little bit and I burst into tears... That's probably because we both hate arguing so much, and I guess it's better to end it quickly.
Oh and when it comes to apologizing and making up after the fight, my friends know I'm far from unforgiving. Actually, I'm just not capable of hating anyone for longer than 15 minutes. I'm a crappy sulker and it's pretty easy to make me smile/laugh.
Have been listening to this song all afternoon, enjoy.
Tiia
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